It seems many of you want this conversation to continue
The post about porn and the patriarchy triggered a LOT for a lot of people. So let me just address a few of the ‘major’ concerns here…
In response to “but what about X” questions:
This is one post. Not a book. Not the absolute extended edition of everything inside Harriette’s brain.
The extended edition of my brain is most likely on my blog roll. If you care enough about what I think, go read the thousands of blog posts I’ve written over the year. They’re all free. You’re welcome.
Which brings me to my next point.
If I’m triggering so much in you… LOOK AT THAT. Don’t make this about what I do and don’t think, whether I watch porn or not (I have done). You shouldn’t actually care what I think, I’m here to offer a perspective to inspire independent thought. I’m not here to deliver a gospel for you to challenge if it upsets you.
Don’t challenge me. You won’t win. I’m not available for anything less than conscious conversation, and only where it serves my greatest highest good, and therefore the greatest highest good of others. Don’t demand an answer or a response from me. You won’t get one. Do you want free insight into my brain? Read my blog. Watch my IGTV channel. Take one of my free courses. Don’t disrespect my time or the investment I make into the collective by crossing a boundary I’m making very clear. I do enough. I am enough. Perhaps this is a perspective that would serve you well too. You’re welcome.
I made a statement in an earlier paragraph which will have made a few of you question where I stand on porn because it appears to be conflicting, so…let me make my stance clear:
I have watched porn. Solo, and with my husband.
As of now, I (and we) no longer watch porn. As a couple we have evolved into our next level of sacred sexuality and consciousness. Who we are today and the choices we make are not the same as a few months ago. Evolution of consciousness is natural and inevitable.
I have self-pleasured. Solo, and with my husband.
Now I’m taking that sacred act to another next level. Self-Pleasure is powerful, important, and magical. I could write for hours on this and I will, but it wasn’t appropriate for the porn post. What I don’t advocate is self-pleasure which is deliberately kept hidden from a partner where this choice or behaviour is coming from a negative vibration, i.e. shame, keeping secrets, knowing deep down something is wrong but not wanting to look at that so hiding it instead.
Porn watching, self-pleasure, sex, all of the topics I have spoken about this last week, I referred to in a very open sense, speaking to male/female relationships, male/male, female/female, polyamarous relationships, and any form of physical engagement between two or more Souls, however those Souls choose to identify and express in their 3D vessels.
Porn and the industry itself I am no expert on, nor am I professing to be. However, as with all industries it has its good points and its bad. I’m not condemning the industry, or the sex industry. But any industry which inadvertently or otherwise facilitates and even profits off the back of disrespecting and degrading another human being needs urgent change and the application of consciousness.
On the notion of conflicting beliefs… every human being is different. It’s kinda sorta the point of being human. We all perceive, believe, and receive the world in completely different ways. If you want the science and spirituality behind this you should have enrolled in my 11 Universal Laws class.
Beyond this it’s important to understand that in order for us to accept differing and opposing beliefs in other people, we need to accept differing and opposing beliefs within ourselves.
Yes… it is helpful to be a walking conundrum.
Labelling yourself as pro-vaccine, anti-vaxxer, right wing, left wing, anti-racist, pro-anti-racism, spiritual, atheist, gay, straight, unicornist is actually really unhelpful as it adds to your sentiment of division and separation.
So consider this (again my views are not shared here to be challenged, only to offer a perspective which you might like to entertain for yourself, or not).
I’m not pro-vaccine but my daughter is vaccinated.
I’m not pro-politics of any description but I’m considering running for office.
I’m not pro-religion but I have a faith and belief practice which appears to be religious by nature.
I’m pro-financial freedom for all but don’t believe the wealthy should have higher taxes.
I’m pro-holistic health and alternative medicine whilst also being pro-science
I’m pro-black lives matter which I’m told is very ‘left’ whilst also not subscribing to wearing a mask which I’m told is very ‘right’ (told you already I’m not pro-politics and all of it’s labelling).
My beliefs conflict each other because I understand I’m an expression of all that it is to be human and divine, and so I’m able to welcome and accept all view points and beliefs even if I don’t personally identify with them, because the person expressing the opposing belief to me, is still expressing the same thing I’m expressing… Divinity… in their own unique way. We are all one consciousness so does it matter how it’s expressed if it’s conscious?
Absolutely not.
❌ There is only one thing I will absolutely stand against and never ever accept in anyone and that is the absence of consciousness where it is bringing harm to that individual or others around that individual. We are so quick to judge one another without any thought to that individuals personal experience or human journey, and indeed without looking at our own experiences to understand why we believe what we do, and why we are triggered in the way we are triggered.
My final point… the things that I share, the beliefs that I hold, all of which is constantly evolving, is a reflection of my personal experience and shared from a place of consciousness.
When I am triggered I share and work through those triggers with my coaches, guides, and healers, of which there are currently four (yes I invest heavy to become the success that I am today). I do not share my triggers in the public domain, at least not until the trigger is resolved to a point where it can serve. To those who accused me of being triggered because you couldn’t face your own wound, take your absence of consciousness and heal that shit. I’m not here to hold your judgement and I’m done reflecting it for you. It doesn’t serve either of us.
If you’re not paying me, I’m not down to heal you. Basically, if there’s no energy exchange, there’s no energy exchange. End of. Probably the kindest most conscious (albeit perhaps triggering) thing I can do for you.
And remember, all of what I’m sharing here, is just a tiny snippet of Harriette’s brain and perspective. I could go much deeper on a lot of these topics but I can’t do it all in one post. What I’m offering is a perspective, not a gospel, from a place of consciousness and selfless service, inviting you into a conscious conversation with yourself.
Until tomorrow….
Love always