Where are you making your desires conditional?
Some more journaling and pondering for you…
Where are you making your desires conditional?
Think about what you really want, like really really really want, the big dream, the big goal, the big house, the big money months, the huge impact and recognition for your Soul work… the time freedom, the creative space freedom, the parenting freedom (whatever that looks like for you)…
… and then tell me, for how many of these things have you attached a condition?
For example:
🔁 “We’ll buy the dream house when I’m making 50k months”
🔁 “I’ll step back from working so much so I can be with the kids more when the pandemic is over”
🔁 “I’ll hire help at home once we move out of the city”
🔁 “I’ll go for the big money months next year once I’ve had some space to process everything I learned in my last container”
🔁 “I’ll join that mastermind once I’ve given birth because I couldn’t possibly do both” (personal one… and I joined the mastermind once I realised I was being conditional with my dreams and goals)
🔁 “I’ll invest in a team member once I’ve cleared all my existing debt”
🔁 “I’ll treat myself to nice things once I’ve sold out my current offer”
In short… I’ll be the woman I truly desire to be, once I’ve put myself through the ringer, and taken a massive detour to becoming her. 🤦🏻♀️
We all do this. We do it because we’re conditioned to it. We watch other women in business, on the gram, doing the things we believe we should be doing (spoiler alert – what everyone else is doing is completely irrelevant to you & your business), and force ourselves into boxes and conditions that don’t allow us to step into the woman we were always destined to be TODAY.
We do it because our education system, and likely our parents, taught us that hard work is followed by a reward, and things need to be worked towards and achieved. No one told us we could simply claim something and step in to it. No one gave us permission to be fully ourselves all of the time, honouring every single desire and Soul nudge.
We were never taught to walk our talk, because we were never taught how to claim our talk in order to walk it.
The world we live in is full of conditions. I won’t speak of the thing which must not be spoken about, that has taken the world in its grip this last 14 months. But if ever you saw a condition to simply doing life… that’s the biggest one smacking you in the face right there.
It’s no wonder you’re subconsciously applying other smaller conditions to your personal dreams, goals and desires. The entire world is living under conditions right now. The condition of freedom.
I wish I had a big answer to the big problem of which we do not speak. I don’t.
But I do have an answer to your own self-imposed conditions that are holding you back from claiming all that you are, all that you’re destined to be, and all that you desire to have & experience. It’s very simple:
Join one of my masterminds. Quantum or SourceMind (or work with me 1:1, I’m about to open my Diamond Heart Experience for one special lady).
Together we will undo the binds of your conditioning, the conditions you place upon yourself, your mutually exclusive beliefs, and all the other bullshit that has you in a state of barely satisfied and far from overflowing Soul-fulfilled.
Do yourself a favour, stop the conditions you impose on yourself TODAY.
Don’t turn a decision to leap into yet another condition, for example:
❌ “Ok I’ll join this weekend as long as I sign that client first”
or
❌ “Ok I’ll join in the last 24 hours so I’m absolutely sure this is what I want”
or
❌ “Ok I’ll join once I’ve meditated on it for the 13th time”
Do you want to claim all that you desire or not? Get OUT of the habit of putting conditions on it, and leap.
>>> Join Quantum here <<< (for entrepreneurs not yet making 10k months)
>>> Join SourceMind here <<< (for 6 and multi-6 figure entrepreneurs)
>>> Book in a chat with me if you need to discuss things before you leap <<<
My love always
Harriette
p.s. your conditions are yours, therefore only you can replace them with powerful sovereign reclamation