Most relationships are fucked… be honest

OK so I promised to talk about this, and I’m giving you a heads up, this may trigger a lot of people, and send some of you spinning in to denial. But that’s OK, I’m not here to be liked.

Having had my own domestic bubble burst this morning, I know only too well how real relationship shit is, and how easy it is to be knocked out of alignment by other people in our lives. 

The problem with relationships these days is that we are all (yes even me) looking outward for an image of what is the ‘ideal’. We set our standards and our expectations according to what #couplegoals images are depicting across all our social media channels. And even offline we are constantly seeking validation for our relationships from external sources.

?How often have you desired something for your relationships simply because you’ve witnessed it in someone else’s relationship and therefore deemed that the grass is greener?

?How often have you told yourself that you need to leave a relationship because it’s not meeting X, Y and Z standards of societal expectations?

?How often have you caught yourself writing off relationships and dismissing them as ‘not the one for you’ because a third party has offered a negative viewpoint?

We set our standards of desiring and expectation by what we see in the outside world, whether that’s role-modelling our parents (or the opposite), looking to celebs and influencers for what a perfect relationship looks like, pouring over relationship blogs and books to learn things such as the Five Love Languages… all the while forgetting that we’d have everything we wanted in all of our relationships, if we actually sorted out the one most important relationship we have.

The relationship with our Soul self. 

Our Souls know exactly what we need and what serves our greatest highest good, far more than any relationship blog or guide, or any celeb or influencer, and ESPECIALLY more than our friends and family.

But the reason so many of us are looking externally to seek validation from society for our relationships is because we’ve completely forgotten who we are.

If we don’t know who we are, how the hell are we supposed to know what we want?

We’re all fucked!

Trigger alert: If you’re reading this and slating me for talking bollocks and reassuring yourself that your relationships are perfect and you do know yourself and I’m obviously talking shit, then you really need to pay attention because you missed the fucking point.

Listen, I’m no relationship coach, and I have no aspirations to be one. Christ I don’t think you could pay me enough to deal with all that crap. I’ve got enough of my own relationships to heal thank you very much. 


What I am shit hot at is helping you heal the relationship you have with yourSELF. And continue to heal and nourish your Soul self as you journey toward financial freedom and fulfilment. 

Think about all the relationships you have in your life right now:

  • Parents
  • Siblings
  • Friends
  • Boyfriend / girlfriend / husband / wife
  • Pet mom
  • Kids
  • Coach
  • Mentor
  • Colleagues
  • Boss
  • Accountant
  • Solicitor
  • Neighbour
  • Staff
  • Associates

When was the last time something pissed you off?

Like, anything…. just think about the most recent occasion you were upset by something.

Was there a person behind that thing?

Of course there was.

Is your relationship with that person CONSCIOUS?

Probably not.


Because your relationship with yourself isn’t fully conscious.

We can’t ever expect to heal any of the relationships in our lives if we don’t have a relationship with ourselves.

This is going to be the foundational teaching for my Virtual VIP day in just 6 days time!

Heal your SOUL self, heal your LIFE. Which means healing your relationships with people around you, healing your attitude, healing your money, healing your beliefs, healing your reality, and so much more.

I am taking you guys to next levels of money consciousness, but in order to do that, I need to start with you.

?You can’t expect to heal a relationship with money to achieve financial freedom if you haven’t got a solid relationship with your Soul self.

?You can’t expect to nourish and grow your business if you haven’t got a super clean and honest relationship with your Soul purpose.

?You can’t expect to have it all if you’ve got no idea what it is your Soul action wants.

I’m not here to coach you through your bullshit relationships babe, I’m here to coach you home to your Conscious Self.


>>> OMG This Is Everything I Need Thank you! <<<

You’re welcome gorgeous

See you thursday

Love always


p.s. if you can’t make it live, don’t worry, all who register will have a replay for life which will be beautifully curated into a mini-course so it’s super accessible and not horrendously overwhelming

p.p.s. this is the last time I’m hosting a Virtual VIP day because I’ve got a huge rebrand coming and I’m taking loads of my courses and packages off my website so jump in before you miss it!


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March 25, 2019