Radical. Self. Love.
Hippy-centric, feel-good, spiritual hashtag word porn.
Sounds great, in theory.
Agonisingly painful to actualise.
Why?
Because we are conditioned to be less than, accept less than, and have less than. Ultimately resulting in debilitating self sabotage.
Sickeningly, ‘debilitating self sabotage’, is far more ‘normal’ and frequent than radical self love.
Which explains EXACTLY why such a small percentage of the world are successful, wealthy, abundant, and genuinely fulfilled in all areas of life.
We’re talking about the 1%.
Did you know that 1% is actually getting closer to 2%? There’s an increase in healthy, happy, wealthy individuals all over the world.
And that’s exciting news for us, because it makes the dream even more possible. Because there’s proof. Even our egos can get on board with that right?
You could read a million books, listen to all the podcasts, interview thousands of successful people yourself, or just take my word for it. The difference between where you are now, and where you aspire to be (currently modelled by your idols), is this:
Radical. Self. Love.
I could write an entire book on what that looks like and how to achieve it, but let me start with this:
Radical self love means putting your dreams first
It means not listening to anything that isn’t in alignment with your dreams
It means not settling, and never giving up
It means putting money, time & commitment into your dreams
It means having non-negotiable boundaries around your dreams
It means doing it NOW
It means taking the actions that scare the crap out of you
It means not listening to rational logical reason (even if it’s coming from your loved ones)
It means doing things you’ve never done before
It means taking big leaps
It means believing in the dream above all else
It means fierce commitment to your self
It means listening to your mind, body, heart & soul
Knowing when to push yourself, and when to nourish yourself
It means going a little bit crazy
Actually it means going a lot crazy
Creating an entirely new path for yourself
Refusing to copy anything that takes you away from your authenticity
It means holding yourself accountable
And getting into environments where your dreams can thrive
It means setting impossible goals
And listening to the whispers of hope
It means putting stars in your own eyes
And in your own sky
It means expanding your Universe to fit the size of your dreams
It means saying yes to yourself over and over and over again
It means walking away from anything that holds you back
It means getting back up every time you fall down
It means staying humble & grateful
But always honouring your desire for more
It mean defining what your version of Radical Self Love is
^^^ so define it
Really take some time to figure out what radical self love looks & feels like to you. And invest some time in your dreams. Sit with them. Visualise them. Feel them. Speak them into existence.
And then come tell me all about them.
There are criteria:
- You must be earning between $30k and $500k
- You must have a big dream & the desire to make it happen
- You must be able to take radical personal responsibility for your past, present & future
- This is for men and women
Are you ready?
Let’s get radical
My love always
Harriette