Happy International Women’s Day!

Happy International Women’s Day

A message from my heart to yours, for everyone, not just women.

Being human didn’t come with a manual, in fact it didn’t come with a great deal of direction or guidance at all.

Some of us came in with more than others. We all leave with nothing.

But we can leave something behind…. a Legacy. A Memory. A piece of ourselves in the hearts of those we touch.

I believe we all have aspirations for the impact we’d like to have on the world, the next generation, & those we share our lives with.

I believe all of those aspirations are positive.

But in reality, sometimes, no matter how positive our aspirations & intentions, we can leave a black mark.

💔 Sometimes we cause harm, and pain, confusion, and conflict.

💔 Sometimes we can inadvertently cause someone anxiety or sadness.

💔 Sometimes we attack. Other times we defend a little too harshly.

💔 Sometimes we judge unfairly. Sometimes we say things we don’t mean in the heat of the moment.

💔 Sometimes we take actions we believe are for the best, but on reflection perhaps they weren’t.

💔 Sometimes we learn our lessons a bit too late.

💔 Sometimes the damage is done before we can reverse it.

💔 Sometimes we haven’t got a clue what to do, what to say, or where to turn.

💔 Sometimes it can feel like you’re up shit creek without a paddle.

💔 Sometimes it can feel like you’re drowning.

💔 Sometimes you’ll want to close your eyes and pretend life isn’t happening around you.

And then there’s the OTHER TIMES…

💛 Other times you help to heal the pain of others.

💛 Other times you see the beauty in someone and help them to see what they previously couldn’t.

💛 Other times you’re the reason someone frees themselves from anxiety and sadness.

💛 Other times you stand up for those being attacked and diffuse situations beautifully.

💛 Other times we learn our lessons and grow exponentially and abundantly.

💛 Other times we take actions that prove to be the best for the greatest & highest good.

💛 Other times you’ll be in the effortless flow of life, following your intuition and thriving.

💛 Other times you feel like you’re flying and you never want the feeling to end.

💛 Other times you won’t want to fall asleep because you’re so head over heels in love with life.

💛 Other times you’ll have a million reasons to celebrate.

💛 Other times you’ll remember WHO you are, WHY you’re here, and WHAT you’re doing to create a lasting legacy, beautiful memories, and LOVE, in your own heart and the hearts of others.

Whether it’s international women’s day, just another Monday, or a day of celebration, pause, reflection, commiseration, or simply doing life, remember this always…

There will always be “sometimes” and there will always be “other times”. And that’s OK.

It’s a wonderful world, and you’re a wonderful person. You’re trying your best. Life can be hard. But life can also be beautiful.

Whatever is going on today, give yourself a moment of beautifulness. You deserve it.

My love always


p.s. join us for Command Your Queendom this weekend!