Happy International Women’s Day
A message from my heart to yours, for everyone, not just women.
Being human didn’t come with a manual, in fact it didn’t come with a great deal of direction or guidance at all.
Some of us came in with more than others. We all leave with nothing.
But we can leave something behind…. a Legacy. A Memory. A piece of ourselves in the hearts of those we touch.
I believe we all have aspirations for the impact we’d like to have on the world, the next generation, & those we share our lives with.
I believe all of those aspirations are positive.
But in reality, sometimes, no matter how positive our aspirations & intentions, we can leave a black mark.
Sometimes we cause harm, and pain, confusion, and conflict.
Sometimes we can inadvertently cause someone anxiety or sadness.
Sometimes we attack. Other times we defend a little too harshly.
Sometimes we judge unfairly. Sometimes we say things we don’t mean in the heat of the moment.
Sometimes we take actions we believe are for the best, but on reflection perhaps they weren’t.
Sometimes we learn our lessons a bit too late.
Sometimes the damage is done before we can reverse it.
Sometimes we haven’t got a clue what to do, what to say, or where to turn.
Sometimes it can feel like you’re up shit creek without a paddle.
Sometimes it can feel like you’re drowning.
Sometimes you’ll want to close your eyes and pretend life isn’t happening around you.
And then there’s the OTHER TIMES…
Other times you help to heal the pain of others.
Other times you see the beauty in someone and help them to see what they previously couldn’t.
Other times you’re the reason someone frees themselves from anxiety and sadness.
Other times you stand up for those being attacked and diffuse situations beautifully.
Other times we learn our lessons and grow exponentially and abundantly.
Other times we take actions that prove to be the best for the greatest & highest good.
Other times you’ll be in the effortless flow of life, following your intuition and thriving.
Other times you feel like you’re flying and you never want the feeling to end.
Other times you won’t want to fall asleep because you’re so head over heels in love with life.
Other times you’ll have a million reasons to celebrate.
Other times you’ll remember WHO you are, WHY you’re here, and WHAT you’re doing to create a lasting legacy, beautiful memories, and LOVE, in your own heart and the hearts of others.
Whether it’s international women’s day, just another Monday, or a day of celebration, pause, reflection, commiseration, or simply doing life, remember this always…
There will always be “sometimes” and there will always be “other times”. And that’s OK.
It’s a wonderful world, and you’re a wonderful person. You’re trying your best. Life can be hard. But life can also be beautiful.
Whatever is going on today, give yourself a moment of beautifulness. You deserve it.
My love always
Harriette
p.s. join us for Command Your Queendom this weekend!
