Being sold to is a massive fucking turn off

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Being sold to is a massive fucking turn off

Being sold to is a massive fucking turn off

Which is exactly why I don’t sell. I don’t sell anything. And I never will. Yet I still make millions… yes bish dis ma smug face 💁🏻🤑

I don’t believe in selling. It’s icky, awkward, uncomfortable, un-natural … and to be frank, when you’re shit hot at what you do, you don’t need to sell. People just appear and buy your things. 

Yesterday during a coaching call, I received a payment for a package and my client nearly fell off her chair in disbelief that someone would just click on my website and book a package without booking a ‘sales call’ with me first. 

To her I said this:

There are people just like you and me, out there in the world, who trust their intuition, just ‘know’ when something is a good fit, and don’t need to have a conversation to confirm it. Not that there’s anything wrong with conversations, we don’t need to sell in those conversations either, but, some people just ‘know’, and that’s just one of the many ways we can receive an abundance of paying clients without selling. 

And let’s talk about those ‘sales call’ conversations.

The way I see it is this:

Two people come together to share values, insights, and difficulties. We are both there to listen, to tune in, to test the waters of each others energy before the relationship goes any further. As the coach, I’m curious to know more about you, your visions, your struggles, your heart and your Soul. I want to see if it ignites a fire in me that makes me go “oh hell yes I want to work with this person because I can see so much freaking potential”. And of course your success is my success. To you guys, you’re also there to size me up, to figure out if I’m a good fit… probably to figure out if I’m just as nuts on zoom as I am on Instagram. The answer is always yes. Yes and even more so 😂.

But I don’t sell. Ever.

I give you options. I suggest ideas. I create space. And then I put my hands up and say “I’m here when you’re ready”.

Because I believe in turning you ON, never turning you off. I believe in exciting the crap out of you but then letting you choose. I believe in you standing in your power and making the damn decision for yourself. Because until you’re ready to make that decision from a place of self-empowerment, you’re not ready to work with me. And that’s OK. Because one day you’ll get there, and you’ll work with me then. So it’s always win win. For both of us. 

This is a relationship. It’s not a sales conversation. 

(and if you’re in business yourself and have a troubling time with the idea of selling… apply all of this ^^^ to your business right now… you’re welcome!)

Now, I have some big news. If you’ve been following me on Instagram, I have only this to say to you at the moment…

No I’m not bloody pregnant and no he hasn’t proposed!! 😂

This news isn’t about me, in fact it’s all about you, and how I can help you with where you’re at right now in life and business. 

I’ve had so many inspiring conversations with over 30 of you in the last few weeks. I had to listen to the clarion call to step further into my service as both Priestess and Consciousness coach for life and business, and create new doors of opportunity for you to open. 

And shit babe, I am so excited for you to open that door!

If you’ve had a chat with me recently, expect to hear from me personally in the next 24 hours. 

If you haven’t yet booked in for a virtual coffee date with me, DO IT HERE.

It doesn’t matter where you are in business, or how much you’re earning, I have a level for you. My only request is this… come ready to change your life. It’s what I do best. 

I won’t sell to you. I’ll just turn you on… turn you on to the possibility that magic is real, and it’s waiting for you to step up and grab it with both hands 😏

My love always

Harriette

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August 29, 2019